As we get to know a woman who comes to us for services, things play out like any good novel. Each one has the elements of a good story. When she arrives, she already has pre-existing circumstances making a pregnancy at this time difficult, challenging, or downright impossible. Her relationships are messy in some way, not because of her fault necessarily. Perhaps she’s just gone through a loss of hopes, dreams or a loved one.  When she has her first appointment with the RPCC Advocate, it isn’t the opening page, but it is a subsequent and very much a decisive chapter.

Like any compelling novel, in each visit we see development of her character into a 3-D person, and learn what emotions, values, beliefs are guiding her behavior.  As she faces her unexpected pregnancy, we learn about the stressful relationships, financial pressures and uncertainty for the future she is going through. RPCC becomes a space where she can pause and begin to consider what her next page will be.  Our staff are not the authors of her life, but more like guides.  Each one listens and offers compassionate care providing her the safety to think outside the box for her next actions.

We understand how complex good novels are. Not every woman we see needs the same things.  A pregnancy test, ultrasound, referrals, education or clothing may seem like simple things to provide. But perhaps the most meaningful thing she may receive from us is a relationship that reduces her isolation and loneliness and therefore changes the tone of her next chapter.

In the end, a good novel gains promise and possibility.  This adversity she is going through is not the end but has meaning. We don’t promise an easy plot, or a resolution with a peaceful ending. As she goes along, she gains courage and confidence to face her challenges. Through it all, she remains the central character in her own story as she turns the page with her company of new friends at RPCC.